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Originally Posted by searchinganswers  Not sure if I'm posted in proper topic so I apologize if i'm not. I need to know how to help my daughter. |
There are two problems here. One is the problem with the spirits your daughter is seeing, the other is how to help her develop her gift.
If she doesn't want to develop her gift you shouldn't push her, just let her know you think her ability is fine and you'd support her decision if she did want to develop it.
If she is interested, one way to help her develop her abilities would be for your family to try attending a spiritualist church. Spiritualists accept people of all faiths, you don't have to give up your present faith to go to their services. A spiritualist church could be a good place for her to meet others with similar abilities and experiences. They usually have clases in mediumship but may not let children in the classes. It would still be a good experience for her to try going to a few spiritualist church services with her family. After the service you can talk with the pastor or other ministers about any problems that she is having with her abilities.
I've read there there are some fraudulent churches and I've never come across any, but you have to be aware of the possibility. Anyone asking for lots of money is a sure sign of fraud. Church classes cost about $10 for each class and meet once a week. Fees might be higher but if they are a lot higher or they ask for special donations or fees of large sums of money stay away.
If you don't have any spiritualists churches in your area that you like you can try to find other psychic development teachers, they will charge more than a church for classes so expect that but you should also be careful about frauds. You may want to try to get a reading yourself from anyone you are considering asking to help your daughter. A good psychic will give you very specific information about your deceased relatives that they could have no way of knowing. If they give you vague information and then proceed to give a detailed message then you should be careful.
Some tips for finding a good medium and teacher can be found here:
http://www.geocities.com/chs4o8pt/na...tural_warning2
As for dealing with the spirits she is seeing, if they are coming to her to encourage her to develop her ability then they may stop if she begins to take classes. I know someone in exactly this sitation. When he was a teenager he started seeing sprits. He was frightened, doubted his own sanity, wondered if they were statinic etc. He got introduced to spiritualism and psychic development through a new age gift shop and then got involved with a spiritualist church. And the nighttime visitations stopped.
If she doesn't want to develop then she can try talking to the spirits and tell them that they are scaring her and she should ask them to stop visiting her.
If she is seeing the spirits because they are earth bound and need her help, this may help:
http://www.geocities.com/chs4o8pt/rescue.html
Either you or she can read this message to the spirits.
I have described some of my own experiences with spiritualist churches (both good and bad) here:
http://www.geocities.com/chs4o8pt/psi_experience.html http://www.geocities.com/chs4o8pt/dark_side.html
Some discussion of fraud can be found here:
http://www.geocities.com/chs4o8pt/re..._psychic_mafia
It is a review of a book written by a confessed fraudulent medium and discusses all the tricks he used.
There is also another discussion forum that might be interesting and helpful where you can ask for help, there are a lot of psychics who post there:
http://www.facebook.com/board.php?uid=6417546403
You can repost your message there. They have a free online development class that meets by chat once a week but I'm not sure it would be the best thing for a complete beginner.