[shay_angel78]

Hi Dave!

Your comment was very interesting! I'm not an expert in the spiritual world and I can't really explain what is going on between our world and the spirit world or why they choose to make themselves appear to a certain person.

It is true that I was the only one who saw this black figure. But would the others have seen the figure if they were facing the same direction as I was? The two others that were sitting with me were my cousin, who is also a niece of the deseased, and a friend who did not know my aunt. I think that the spirit would not have shown himself to the friend because the friend had no clue to who my aunt was. And my cousin is unsure of the spirit world.

I myself believe in spirits but do not really understand them. My great grandfather was very sensitive to spirits as was my grandmother and mother. This is my best answer to your question. But I think every individual would have a different answer because of their own beliefs.

Thanks for posting your comment! I enjoy reading whatever anyone has to say. Whether it be positive or negative or just plain curious!

Oh yeah as for the black figure I saw I'm not sure if it was a warning sign. I just thought about the black figure the day my aunt had passed away and thought maybe someone(a spirit) was trying to tell me something. But then again maybe it was just a spirit that lives in our house also. My mother tells me that when someone is just about to pass to the other side we will get a warning sign we just have to keep our minds open to what the sign is.

I have another story that I think was a warning sign. "My grandfather had passed away from cancer a few years ago. But before he passed he used to have this little bell he used to ring if he needed something because he couldn't get out of bed and do things for himself anymore. He ended up going to the hospital because he was getting worse everyday. I was home alone at my granparents house because I used to live with them. I was in my room and my granfathers room was right across from mine. I was sitting in my room reading and then I had heard his bell ringing. I went to see who was ringing it because I thought I was alone in the house, but when I reached the room no one was there. I observed the bell to see maybe it had fallen but it was in the same place where my grandfather had kept it. An hour later the phone had rang and it was my aunt telling me that granfather had passed."