Synchronicity is a powerful ways of hearing what's happening in our mind as well as why we get sick.
Some of the opinions were ever explained from me in
other section of that forum. In fact, it get even more powerful than that especially for healing the family.
I would like to suggest all people to read the book from Bert Hellinger who is a German. He explains us why ADD, cancel and even schizophrenia happen in a family. I would like to share some of the points here:
ADD: the new generation of a family system need to face the dead-feeling (libido dead feeling) which is the feeling from the old generation, they use the over-active to against that feeling not belonged to them, but a family system.
cancel: the old generation ever made people dead or even kill people from suffering of the body strong pain, their new generation let the hospital doctor to "punish" them in a similar hard suitaion too.
schizophrenia: the family ever happen the internal killing, lets say brother kill elder brothers etc. it makes their new generation cannot face to the public from bringing the murder guilty. It can also be the cutting of the love from the parents on or before the anal period.
when people can face to their family and talk to them unconsciously or vis the helping from NLP to release such feeling off, it helps to the healing a lot.