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Originally Posted by Paul C. Anagnostopoulos I think one's reaction to an event like depends on the way one approaches evidence. To say that I would believe it once it happened to me is too easy. In particular, if someone doesn't believe, you can simply say they must never have had a "real experience." You can dismiss the possibility that they had experiences just like yours but interpreted them differently.
For me, it's a question of probability. If I can't calculate the probability of a dream matching a future event, then I will simply assume it's coincidence, or possibly that I had knowledge that I forgot I had. People are going to have dreams matching future events purely by coincidence. How do we decide which ones are coincidence and which ones are premonitions?
~~ Paul |
Paul,
With all due respect, and I am serious here, probability may come into it at first, but the concept is inadequate. It works in large samples of minor events happening to other people, but in a spontaneous event that happens to you, whether or not it is the first thing that enters your mind, you will know in your gut that a probability calculation is secondary to the fact you are already convinced. When you do make the calculation, if it is even possible, that will be convincing also.
The idea that random dreams will match random events might sound good if you never look closely at them, but it doesn't hold water if you do. The problem with many dream studies is that they cover a large number of dreams by different people instead of a single large collection of records from one person. The difference is that one may easily assume a large number of available dreams, when no comprehensive list exists. This is what happens when a random population is asked to submit a handful of examples. No one knows what wasn't submitted, and usually, there aren't any records anyway. Therefore, it becomes easy to imagine an infinite number of possibilities. If you look at large collections by one person (or a group of them, like Nancy Sondow's diaries, or Alan Vaughan's) you'll see that there is not an infinite variety of subjects. At this point the large number correspondence theory breaks down because large numbers aren't involved.
When I was an artist at the video game company SquareUSA, I had a falling out with a friend, who told me he never wanted to speak to me again. I then had a dream where I had hired him (a much more experienced artist than I was) to work on a Scooby-Doo video game. The idea was laughable, and I laughed as I told my wife about it. But then, a couple years later I was an art director at a different company, in charge of a Scooby-Doo project. I needed some work done, and this artist was the only guy I could think of to do it. I hesitated to call at first, wondering if he would even take the call. He did though, and he took the assignment.
It cost my company about five million dollars to get the Scooby license. That is not the kind of thing I could have arranged to make my dream come true. I did make the offer of a position to this guy, but he didn't have to take it. When I took the job I knew it would be on a Scooby project, but I had three competing offers. My choice was made on the basis that it was the only job that wouldn't require moving to a different city or state (one was in Texas, one in San Diego, and another in Milpitas). Now that I think of it, I had already decided to take the San Diego job, but then I ran into an old colleague I'd worked with before. He invited me to lunch but I told him I wasn't interested in a job. He talked me into the lunch, and then the job as well. When I took it, I wasn't thinking of the dream, and if I had, it would have been ridiculous to factor it in. I didn't know at the time that I would later be in a situation that required the expert help of this senior artist I knew, or that I would be able to afford his rate.
That is just one of many. More importantly, it isn't like I've dreamed twenty-five variations of this that account for a number of different possibilities. As I see it, the random dream/random event theory comes from people who know very little about these things. The theory makes sense if you haven't got anything to base it on, but if you go to the trouble of testing it, it doesn't work very well.
AP
PS: I should note, in the interest of full disclosure, that the Porgy dream I mentioned earlier is a dream that I did write off as coincidence for many years. It was one of the most powerful dreams I'd ever had, and the timing of Porgy's death and the dream was very close, but I wasn't about to believe something as silly as that the two were related. Another dream of being mugged in Amsterdam that may have saved my life was similarly written off as coincidence, as was an uncanny string of called dice rolls in a backgammon game (every roll, both players, until out of frustration my opponent tossed the board into a plate glass window). All of those things were "coincidence" to me, and many others as well, things that I do think might have turned the head of someone slightly less skeptical than I was. It took two dreams, one right after the other, one of lottery numbers, and the other of the Ramstein airshow disaster to convince me that it was worth looking into. You may think you are less prone to flights of fancy than the believers in this forum, but what you don't know is exactly how skeptical we may have been at one time ourselves, perhaps even more so than you.
Assume this hypothetical: psi is real and you are confronted with an unquestionably genuine example. Never mind asking what kind, it's genuine and it's obvious. That is the hypothetical. What do you do? Pull out a calculator to run probability calculations? Deny it? I never thought I'd ever see something like that myself, and when I did, I denied it myself. Not once or twice or even three times, but many times. My skepticism held out for years, and I had the benefit of first hand experience, something that is quite rare. However, there were too many things, too many many unequivocal examples. Just because I'm a believer now doesn't mean I wasn't a tough guy skeptic once. Personally, I think I could have wiped the floor as a skeptic with anyone, but then, I had these experiences and saw that I was wrong. Sometimes life is like that.