Help my child

[cheryl]

My son 7 years cannot write easily. As compared to other children his age
his writing is real bad. Many motor movements like jumping, running etc he is lagging behind. Is it b'cos of the febrile convulsions he had starting from 1 year
to 6 years. He must have had around 10 bouts when suffering from Malaria.
He also lost his father when he was 2 years, though he has no memory of him. But many times rues not having one. He has been under homeopathy since 2 years and his over all health has improved except writing which is creating problems in school. What must I do?

[Talker]

My son 7 years cannot write easily. As compared to other children his age his writing is real bad. Many motor movements like jumping, running etc he is lagging behind. Is it b'cos of the febrile convulsions he had starting from 1 year to 6 years. He must have had around 10 bouts when suffering from Malaria.
He also lost his father when he was 2 years, though he has no memory of him. But many times rues not having one. He has been under homeopathy since 2 years and his over all health has improved except writing which is creating problems in school. What must I do?
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Posted in my blogs are many items that could / might assist in correcting various health conditions. Your description of your sons condition, brought various " feelings tones ", to me. So I have listed a few suggestions, based on those feelings. It is difficult to cover every detail, of how one can be helped, when doing my posts. As you read the posts, ask the " inner voice " your source of truth, " is this the way to my boys health. When any specific illness shows up, the natural tendency, is to treat that specific illness. In many instances, that's OK. Yet there are situations, where the illness is only a result of a problem, elsewhere in the body, that must be corrected first. So keep in mind, we are " Spirit, Soul and Body ", and a problem in any one part, can and does affect the other parts. In ones logical mind, it might appear, that there is no such connection, yet that is why it is so hard to correct certain health conditions. Now, if one were to ask me, where is the proof, of what I say, I could not in any way, give any proof. To me the real proof, is, " did the healing take place ", by what was done. I will add energy healing for you and your son. Wellnes to you and son.
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[anonymous]

Hi,

You may want to try a method of spiritual healing described on this web page:

http://www.geocities.com/chs4o8pt/sp...ing.html?00006


Any one can learn to do this. If you are interested in trying this, and based on what you described for your son you should continue to use it 5-10 minutes per treatment, a few times per week. This is only a suggestion, more probably wouldn't hurt. After several weeks see how you feel while doing it (you will probably notice some sensations indicating that healing energy is flowing) and see how your son likes recieving the treatments. (If he is fidgety, you can try it while he is asleep.) If you both feel good about it, even if you don't notice any improvement continue the treatments indefinately. You can stop treatments anytime you want but you should understand that only a few healers can cure in one treatment. That doesn't mean that ordinary people can't do it, it just means that we have to continue treatments for a longer period of time.

If you're not sure about this kind of thing, just remember that it can't hurt and if you can stop anytime. The link has some references to scientific evidence that it can be effective.

[Kim]

I am sorry to hear that your son has had such a difficult time. (Hugs) it isn't easy for children who have medical problems, and I can relate for several reasons. I was a sickly child myself. It was miserable to have people constantly worried about me, and having to take special precautions and stay in so much. My Daughter's Fiancé suffered a profound hearing loss when he was 11. We are very close and he has talked a lot about what it was like and how it made him feel. Overall healing isn't just physical, and you have to consider his emotions also when you think of healing. The mindset created by having something 'wrong' with you, as a child is not easy to deal with psychologically any more than it is physically.

It is tough being a parent to a child who is sick or handicapped because in hindsight either you don't make enough alowances, and the child doesn't get the help he needs, or you obcess like my parents did, until the child feels he is flawed, or weak. It is a constant tight rope of how much to compensate, and wondering if the illness is why this or that is going poorly. As a parent it is very hard to be objective, much less positive in the face of any sort of problem that involves your child.

I think all of the above sound like good solutions to the question of physical healing. I do have some things to add as someone who has worked a lot more with emotional healing than physical. The MOST important thing of all is to keep a positive attitude with your son. Remember he is old enough to understand what you are saying about him, and you want him to understand that he will be OK, and that he CAN learn to write.

Hope and Faith are very important to healing, and if he feels that something is "wrong" with him, that could work against his overall progress. Kids don't have a baseline of what is normal for them, so any kind of inference that he isn't good at something, or he has problems, could really be a self fulfilling prophecy if you aren't careful.

Praise him for any progress he makes and keep critizism to a bare minimum. A lot of kids don't have great hand writing at 7... some people never have great penmenship for that matter. It isn't nearly as important as keeping his self image up. Don't let anyone make him feel bad about it. He'll get it. IT may take longer but he'll be fine. Don't let him use his past medical history as an excuse not to try. Don't let him feel that he is seriously ill, or damaged because he is having a little trouble learning to write either. Most little children do have trouble at that age with reading or writing, or math, for any number of reasons. In trying to make him feel your concern with his dificulties, be sure he doesn't feel less than capable of what he needs to do. He will learn to write, type and all the things he needs to learn eventually, the key is to keep him motivated and trying, and feeling good about himself.

Healing takes faith, in the idea that the person is, and will be fine. You can't pray for healing while wringing your hand about what if he isn't going to be OK. You can't expect your child to do his best if he looses self confidence. Teachers and other kids can be cruel, so he might need some confidence boosting at home to compensate for whatever he might be going through at school. Tell the teacher to back off if she gets too pushy. The last thing you want is for this external pressure to esculate a problem that would normally take care of itself. He has plenty of time to learn to write, but letting him worry about it, could make this a lot harder on him than it needs to be.

We will pray for your son, and believe that he will be fine, but he needs to believe that too.

Kim

[cheryl]

Thanks Kim for your words of encouragement. What you say is true. And I have
try do my best to praise my son so he does not feel discouraged. Finally the most important thing a parent or caregiver can give a child is self-esteem.