Connection to an Ex

[need advice]

(I posted this under a different category on the forum, but think this one might be better.)

I am not sure if this is exactly the place to be asking this question, but atleast I may be able to get some direction...

When dating my first girlfriend I could literally feel her stress and pain without being anywhere near her. At first I was just on the other side of our college campus and I could call her to confirm what I was feeling. Eventually I finished college and moved one state away, but she stayed for another year and I could still feel if something was wrong with her. She was very emotionally unstable and I was extremely stable so most of the time I was supporting her.

Probably 3 months into the following semester she decided to break up with me. Even after the break up she still needed emotional support from me, and would occasionally call me. Before the phone even rang I could feel in the pit of my stomach that she was reaching out to me.

It's been 3 years since we broke up and she is now on the other side of the planet (I'm in the US and she is in Japan), but everytime I have started to date someone new she contacts me within a month. When I was in Asia a few months ago she emailed me within a week of getting back (I got engaged during my trip).

This weekend I booked another flight to SEAsia with a transfer in Japan, and today when I walked out of work I got that feeling in the pit of my stomach again. Within two hours of being home she sent me an email asking if she could see me again.

I know you are probably thinking what is the point to all this. I need to know if there is some way to break this connection. Also I would like to be able to create this same connection with my current fiancee. I don't know if it was just because she was my first love and I let myself become so deeply connected to her, or because a physical proteins of mine became part of her body (I have been working on a theory that if someone "consumes" something of your body, the proteins that were orignally part of your body and could communicate with you are somehow transfered to/and become a part of another person and allowing you to feel what they feel. Maybe even acting like a two way radio which might describe why she can sense the changes in my life).

Anyway, if anyone can help me or has any suggestions, for my fiancee I am willing to try just about anything... Thank you!

[Talker]

Originally Posted by need advice

(I posted this under a different category on the forum, but think this one might be better.)

I am not sure if this is exactly the place to be asking this question, but atleast I may be able to get some direction...

When dating my first girlfriend I could literally feel her stress and pain without being anywhere near her. At first I was just on the other side of our college campus and I could call her to confirm what I was feeling. Eventually I finished college and moved one state away, but she stayed for another year and I could still feel if something was wrong with her. She was very emotionally unstable and I was extremely stable so most of the time I was supporting her.

Probably 3 months into the following semester she decided to break up with me. Even after the break up she still needed emotional support from me, and would occasionally call me. Before the phone even rang I could feel in the pit of my stomach that she was reaching out to me.

It's been 3 years since we broke up and she is now on the other side of the planet (I'm in the US and she is in Japan), but everytime I have started to date someone new she contacts me within a month. When I was in Asia a few months ago she emailed me within a week of getting back (I got engaged during my trip).

This weekend I booked another flight to SEAsia with a transfer in Japan, and today when I walked out of work I got that feeling in the pit of my stomach again. Within two hours of being home she sent me an email asking if she could see me again.

I know you are probably thinking what is the point to all this. I need to know if there is some way to break this connection. Also I would like to be able to create this same connection with my current fiancee. I don't know if it was just because she was my first love and I let myself become so deeply connected to her, or because a physical proteins of mine became part of her body (I have been working on a theory that if someone "consumes" something of your body, the proteins that were orignally part of your body and could communicate with you are somehow transfered to/and become a part of another person and allowing you to feel what they feel. Maybe even acting like a two way radio which might describe why she can sense the changes in my life).

Anyway, if anyone can help me or has any suggestions, for my fiancee I am willing to try just about anything... Thank you!

Hello,
Some advice and a link to check out and read.
Could do a detailed long write, but you need to use the inner perceptions to awaken for your own benefit.
Here is what I 'feeling tone' this situation and suggest:
You are experiencing psychically the inner activity.
For starters, find these two books referenced in my posts. The Art of True Healing, ( for the routine to use now) and The Secret of The Ages, ( for setting in long term benefits).
Doing a Chakra routine ( as in The Art of True Healing) is a first step. At which point you need to do a good visualization of the Chakra's, (this is a MUST) and mentally SEE or even 'imagine' little wisps of threads / cords attached to the form you are mentally 'seeing'. Now gently ( in your mind) REMOVE these cords. Tell these removed gently to return to their owners. Do NOT mention any specific name. Just a ' return to your owner' statement. Do this routine as often as you feel a need to do. When a 'sense' of 'no more cords present', follow-up with a Chakra, Middle Pillar' routine. This site you posted on has some Chakra material on it also, if my recollection serves me right. Sounds complicated, but really is not. Sounds crazy, but again is not. Will take a few attempts to settle into a 'got it right' attitude, so don't give up. This IS a very effective process.
Could add more, but best to learn it by doing it.
Now a note of warning. Please don't try to make, as you had stated, any connections to the new love. Let the natural and normal ways love connections happen take place. Any other forcing, trying to establish efforts will boomerang on you. So be warned.
Best of success to you.
Be Well

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