Will put you both in my prayer circle for healing . You are, it appears, in need of doing what is called " grounding ". Its a a simple but effective process, using visualization. Just see a cord or hollow tube connected to your 1st chakra. Than see / visualize a solid connection, that allows excess energy flow down that grounding device. Picture it, in any way, that you feel comfortable with. It will work for you. For the wife , see the " remedy " post about the caster oil pack. Use it over the liver area for a week, at least. She should also do a simple breathing meditation. You should start the Honegar, for yor pain. There is so much that needs to be said yet, about those posted remedies. As you can see with those posts, I had to split them up due to their size, and still much was left unsaid. Pickup on the LoHochi or SpringForest Qigong methods.
Can also pickup about doing " The Middle Pillar " process from The Tree of Life.
These are readily available doing a search on line or on this forum. Don't keep on suffering, Take any of these tid-bit actions.
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