Originally Posted by Toblerina
What I would like help with is with what fix is trying to tell me..
You misspelled Fox.
I note your spelling error and I wonder...is it a Freudian slip? Are you hoping that the Fox will 'fix' everything?
Many years ago when I was a young man I was involved with a married woman. Her husband was abusive and she wanted a divorce. I fell in love with her, only to have her change her mind and move away with her husband.
The fox might be synchronicity. It might help you to decide, or it might not. You might have to do it the old-fashioned way.
I did an I-Ching reading for you. I got hexagram 57:
Sun / The Penetrating Wind
Wind follows upon wind, wandering the earth, penetrating gently but persistently:
The Superior Person expands his influence by reaffirming his decisions and carrying out his promises.
Small, persistent, focused effort brings success.
Seek advice from someone you respect.
Gentle persuasion is the key in this instance.
Though the words are soft, their speaker must be firm, calm and confident.
Gentle words are worthless if spoken with trepidation.
Wordless influence by example is also effective in this situation.
All persuasion should be almost unfelt, yet consistent and persistent.
Ask for feedback from someone you know to be an effective persuader.